Love Without Limits
Recently, my grandfather passed away. While at the visitation and the funeral, gathered around family, we were all reminded that he never had anything negative to say about others. He didn’t speak in an angry way. He loved life and loved others. This was an excellent lesson he taught us, but one that Jesus taught as well.
Its easy to love people who treat you well. However, how do you love someone who doesn’t treat you well? The kid in school who makes fun of you? The boss who takes credit for your work, or blames you for things going wrong? Those people are a bit harder to love.
Jesus tells the Pharisees in Matthew 5:43-48 they are to love their neighbor, but also love their enemy. The King James goes on to say “bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.” We know Jesus wants us to love our neighbor, that’s for sure. He tells us over and over again. However, the Jewish Rabbis taught that their “neighbor” only applied to fellow Jews. This worked out well because the Jews pretty much hated everyone else. The Romans actually accused and charged the Jews with hatred of the human race.
The problem is that the Old Testament, or no where in the Bible in fact, tells us to hate our enemies. There are places in the Old Testament where God hates evil, and may not care for the evildoer, but he never commands his people to hate their enemies. We are to shower them with unconditional kindness.
I heard a story about Wade Boggs, former third baseman for the Boston Red Sox. He hated playing at Yankee Stadium while playing for Boston, not because of the Yankees but because of one particular fan. This fan would heckle him, yell out insults and profanities. One day, Boggs had listened to this enough. He walked over to the area where this guy was, looked at him, and asked “Are you the guy that is always yelling at me?”. The fan responded “Yeah, what are you gonna do about it?”
Wade Boggs took a new baseball, signed it, and threw it up for the guy to have. The guy never heckled Boggs again. In fact, he became one of his biggest supporters.
That’s what we are urged to do with our enemies. Find a way to show them love, especially the love of Christ in all we do. God is going to bless everyone on this earth, whether they believe in him or not. He sends the rain and the sun to bless even his enemies by common grace (vs 45). We need to love people without discrimination like God loves us. We also need to love our enemies because we need to show there is no greater love than Christian love.
Dear Granddaddy,
On Sunday, July 10, 2011, my Granddaddy Widick passed from this earth. I had the daunting task of being one who would officiate at his funeral. Below are the words I shared with the crowd gathered. These words were from the perspective of his 7 grandchildren, written in letter form to the greatest Granddaddy in the world.
Dear Granddaddy,
I hope that all of us have made you proud. You worked so hard to get this family started. We know that you loved us all so very much.
I have a few confessions to make. First, one day when I was very little, I walked down into your basement and was playing around with some of your tools on your massive workbench. I found an oil can. I had never seen one like this. It looked like the one Dorothy used on the tin man in the “Wizard of Oz”. I grabbed it and pretended everything down stairs was the tin man, and gave it a good oiling. Sorry about the mess, but at least nothing squeaked anymore.
I also would always forget to turn the shop light off in your basement. I was always fascinated by the pull string that had the doughnut shaped ring to it. You could always see if the light was left on or not by looking down through the vent next to your chair in the den.
I know we all as grandchildren loved you very much. We want to thank you. Thank you for letting us play and hang out with you in your basement. We were always fascinated by it. I can vividly remember everything about the basement you were so proud of at the house on Darden. Walking in to your little office, where you had your small sofa, a little 13 inch television set (which you got as a Christmas Present one year from your children), one of 4000 puzzles laid out that you were always working on, and your pipe. OH, how you always smelled so special with that pipe smell. I remember a small black and gold radio you had on a shelf behind the couch. I remember finding reasons to go and wash my hands in your special little sink in the basement. The water was always ice cold.
We were always impressed by the enormous collection of aluminum cans as we would go up the stairs. We were also always fascinated by all the different and unique knick knacks you would keep in the unfinished ceiling of the basement. I think each of us found something new everytime we looked.
There wasn’t a time we remember when we didn’t look at your birthmarks on your arm. We’re sorry, but we were so impressed! You also always had ink stains on your hands from working so hard to provide for us. I know you had to be exhausted after you would get home from work, but whenever you came home when we would spend the night with you, you always took time for us. We don’t recall you ever being too tired to get down on the floor with us and play. Even in your last days, we saw you playing with our own children, loving them and holding them dearly, being so proud to be a great granddaddy.
You got us back though, for all the times we aggravated you. Every time you saw one of us you would come up to us and do one of a few things:
You would grab our arm, and squeeze right between our muscle and our bone. It wouldn’t hurt, but it didn’t feel good. You also had the ability to grab that tender spot just above our knee when we would sit beside you, and squeeze just hard enough. You also loved to count all of our ribs, and you would get us all as you tickled us.
However, all those things were just in fun. We know you loved to pick on us. But you also showed us your love in the simplest things. You would always hand crank the best ice cream out on the deck. From the wonderfully thick and sweet chocolate ice cream to perfect as could be peach ice cream, you knew just how many times to crank that ice cream. As Jackson put it last night to me, I don’t think anyone else was strong enough to do it but you.
John 14:1-4 Jesus tells us not to let our hearts be troubled. If we believe in God; believe also in Jesus. His Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would he have told us that He was going there to prepare a place for us? And if he is going and preparing a place for us, he will come back and take us to be with Him that we also may be where He is. We know the way to the place where He is going.
There’s one problem with this verse, granddady. Some of our fondest memories of being with you were in the back yard, sitting on the cedar swing with you, walking around the yard looking at your plants and flowers, and most importantly – the annual Easter Egg hunt. You would walk around and help each of your grandchildren find the eggs that were hidden a little tougher than they should have been.
We know you’ve moved on. But the problem is you probably don’t care too much about the room Jesus prepared for you. You probably care more about the backyard. We know you’ve probably already started a garden at the home Jesus prepared for you. You’re probably even giving Jesus tips on how to make flowers and tomatoes grow a little fuller and a little riper.
Our memories of you will forever live in our hearts. Yesterday, as we gathered as a family in this room before guests started to arrive to honor you, I was reminded of the great legacy that you have to your name. I looked around and was reminded of God’s word to Abraham when he promised him that he would become a great nation – We are a great nation as a family devoted to God, all because of the care and kindness of this wonderful man.
Indeed, each of the grandkids heard you threaten with the phrase “You see that ‘mean’ in my eye? I know I would try to find it, but would never succeed in seeing it. None of us ever could. Admit it granddaddy, there was no mean in your eye, only love. But granddaddy, do you see that tear in my eye? Its real, and its there because you’re gone.
May we all walk daily in the footsteps of Jesus as you did. May we all be the examples to our own families as you always were to us. May we find comfort in knowing you’re with a Savior who always walked with you. May we continue to live out the legacy you began for this Widick family. We know we will see you again one day, and can’t wait to see what kind of backyard you will have grown using that heavenly soil.
The Blind Man Stood By
I have to preface this post. I have never been a big fan of U2, not because I have anything against them, but because I’ve just never gotten into their music. However, I do know that Bono is probably one of the kindest, most compassionate men that is walking the face of the earth in this present day.
Recently, my good friend Jason Bybee went to a U2 concert in Nashville. You can read of his previous attempts to make it to a U2 show HERE. On several occasions Jason has offered up some great suggestions for must have music for my iPod, so I was eager to talk to him after the concert to see how it went, and to see if I could finally get into U2. This time, Jason had nothing to do with me becoming a fan of U2 and new music. It was the artist himself that forever changed my impression of this dynamic band. Read the article below:
NASHVILLE, Tenn. — A blind man from Arizona had a lifelong dream come true when he was invited by Bono to jam with Irish rock band U2 on stage, myFOXphoenix.com reported Tuesday.
Adam Bevell, who started losing his sight at the age of 14, caught Bono’s attention at a U2 concert in Nashville over the long weekend.
Towards the close of the show, the band’s frontman spotted Bevell holding a sign declaring “blind guitar player,” indicating that the fan wanted to play and dedicate a song to his wife.
“[Bono] said ‘C’mon up here. Get this dude a guitar,’ and I thought no way man, there’s no way this is happening,” Bevell recalled.
INFphoto.comBono of U2.“Dude’s gonna play some guitar,” Bono told the crowd.
With some help from Bono, Bevell performed his favorite song “All I Want Is You.”
“It was the greatest feeling knowing that I was playing with the greatest rock star in the world but he didn’t make me feel like that at all, he made me feel like we were in our living room,” Bevell said, adding that playing with U2 was something he had on his bucket list.
Bono is known for his generosity and humanitarian work around the world and he did not disappoint in this case — he let Bevell keep the guitar.
Bevell, who lives in Phoenix, Arizona, has been to at least 20 U2 concerts over the years.
You can watch the whole performance by watching the video below:
This guy was given a gift at the end of this wonderful ride of a lifetime that no one else can say they’ve ever received, and that’s pretty cool.
I’d be remiss if I didn’t take an opportunity here to make a correlation between this and a similar gift that I’ve received. The greatest and most compassionate man to EVER walk on the face of the earth gave me an even better gift. Jesus Christ, the perfect, sinless Savior, gave me a few things – his life, his heart, and salvation for an eternity – and I think that trumps the guitar. The cool thing about the gift that Jesus gave me is that its not just for me, but its for us all.
The Automobile Warranty and Jesus Connection
“As far as the east is from the west,
so far has He removed our transgressions from us.”
Psalm 103:12
Today, my wife’s car spent the day in the shop with a blown compressor and condenser. This was an $1800 repair we had done just back in September of 2010, and it broke again on her on the way home yesterday. With the Houston heat reaching 105 degrees in the summer, with the humidity at 110%, its obvious that it needs to be fixed. Fortunately, the warranty covered the problem. It was fixed 7 months ago, worked well for 7 months, and broke down again.
Kristen and I don’t have $1800 to throw at a broken AC unit every 7 months. Its just not possible. But that warranty really helped out. The part is usually warrantied for 12 months/12,000 miles, however, our mechanic at First Tire and Automotive in Sugar Land, TX doubles the manufacturers warranty on all their repairs. I wasn’t aware of this last night when I drove the car over to leave it. I was worried, because even though we were within the 12 month time frame, we had driven 11,985 miles since the original repairs were done. Not knowing about the doubling of the warranty sent me in a tizzy last night.
All I could think about was what we were going to do. Were we going to have to fork over another $1800? Would we just need to sell the car and get something else? I started to panic, because we just don’t have the money to do either one of those things. Imagine my relief this morning when the mechanic called and told me that the damage was covered under the warranty. The best thing was that this warranty was free with my decision to go this particular mechanic. Better yet, today he told me that if it happened again, that even though the warranty is from the original date of work, they would help in any way they could.
I sat at home all day today, since I had no car to go to the office. I thought a lot about my life. I’m covered under an eternal warranty given to me by God. Its not something I paid for. In fact, he paid for it himself. All I had to do was accept it. Thank goodness God has given me that gift.
I’ve screwed up a lot in my life. I’ve done a lot of things that I’m not proud of. I’ve acted in ways that many people would question whether or not I truly was a child of God. When I start to stray away from God, I feel broken down. I feel like all my “parts” just aren’t working right. That’s when I remember that all I have to do is approach the throne of God and seek forgiveness. He then does a complete system flush, and takes care of those sins.
The great thing about it is, however, that these sins aren’t recorded into a computer where he can go and check to see how long that forgiveness is good for. As the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us! Hallelujah! This verse just describes it ALL! It is just so awesome that God will forget everything we have done if we just ask Him to. I remember in the past when so called “friends” would hurt me or turn their back on me. I know i have forgiven them, but I haven’t forgotten what they did. That‘s a hard thing for us to do. But God, He forgives and forgets like it never happened. we can let guilt build up in our human minds and continually ask for forgiveness, but God says, “Forgive what? I don’t remember any sin.“ I am so overwhelmed by His amazing love for everyone of us no matter how much we have messed up! God is awesome!
Great Balls of Fire!

There are many narratives told throughout the Bible that are impossible to let go of. From the beginning of the Bible to the end, many jump out as tall tales, fascinating adventures, or love stories.
- Noah’s Ark and the Flood
- The Captivity and Exile of the Israelites
- The Walls of Jericho
- The Herculean Samson
- David and Goliath
- Jonah and the Big Fish
Aside from the description and accounts of the Life and Death of Jesus, no other story sticks out in my head like the one of Shadrach Meshach, and Abednego.
I believe the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego is so powerful, that I believe you could pull this one story out of the Bible and encapsulate every aspect of who God is, and every aspect of who we as Christians should be in our service to Him.
In a nutshell, King Nebuchadnezzar builds a giant statue and tells everyone that when the band plays, everyone of any race, creed, or color must bow down and worship the image. If you did not bow, you would be thrown into a fiery furnace to be destroyed. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, 3 Jewish men who were in Babylon due to the captivity of Israel, refuse. These men have already been mentioned in the first chapter under different names, but they were promoted and honored in the land to positions of authority.
Nebuchadnezzar brings them in and asks them to bow down when the band plays. He reveals his true egotistical self in the statement: “What god will be able to rescue you from my hand”. Here, Nebuchadnezzar asserts his own power above all gods. Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego give an answer at this point that reminds of the devotion that one would expect find in a great love story: “We don’t need to defend ourselves before you in this matter”, OR – Your threats mean nothing to us.
They then go on to show their true faith in their God. They talk of if you throw us into the fire, the God we serve can rescue us from it, or anything else you throw at us. BUT IF NOT, it wouldn’t make a bit of difference, O King. We still wouldn’t serve your gods or worship your statue. This obviously makes the King mad, and he orders the furnaces 7 times hotter, and the men thrown in to the blaze. They were bound, wearing all of their clothing, and thrown in. The men who threw them in were killed from the intensity of the heat.
The King looks up at the furnace and notices they are walking around, unbound, and there is a 4th person in the fire with them. He recognizes this person as a son of the gods, later to recognize the person as God.
Here are 5 points I was able to pull from the story to apply to us today.
- The Love story here is reciprocal : They love their God so much, they’re not willing to betray Him, and He loves his servants so much, he would never betray them
- There is power in companionship. Surround yourself with good friends. Could they have done this alone? The three men believed that God could save them from anything, but their loyalty was NOT contingent on their rescue. This loyalty had to be easier to have when the loyalty comes with the companionship. Surround yourself with believers, so you won’t be tempted to abandon God from time to time.
- We can’t let an emotional response to God rule our faith. Nebuchadnezzar had several “mountain of God” experiences, in previous chapters, but these emotional outbursts of his allegiance to the God of Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego were seemingly short lived. Emotion is not a bad thing, and an emotional response to God is not a bad thing. However, we can’t base our entire faith on the emotional responses to God. It has to be rooted, like the Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.
- God saved the three men IN THE FIRE, not FROM THE FIRE. God could have extinguished the flames, but he did not. This is interesting to note that God saves us the same way today. He saves us IN the world, not FROM the world.
- God continues to confirm His promise to us as He did for Israel. This was an encouragement for Daniel’s Day. Remember things are bad. They’ve been in captivity, their land was devastated, their people were scattered, and the situation looked hopeless. What an encouragement this could be in giving hope to the hopeless. This story becomes a strong message to the people. Jehovah is still on the throne. God hasn’t forsaken us. He will one day fulfill His promises to His people
Interesting to note that Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego’s names were originally something else: Hananiah is a Hebrew name that means “Yahweh who is gracious”. Misha’el means “Who is like Yahweh?” and it also means “to feed” or “to provide” as in how a husband provides for his family. The Hebrew name Azariah appropriately means “Yahweh has helped”. God certainly did all of those things for these men in this challenging time.






